Follow-up to Proposition 8 Post

Proposition 8 seems to endanger more for those who support traditional marriage if not passed than it gives to those (gays/lesbians) who would benefit by Proposition 8 failing. What about the rights of those who believe in traditional marriage? What about my freedom of speech and religion that would be in jeopardy if Proposition 8 is not passed? This is not an issue about Rights. This is an issue about the fundamental definition of marriage. It is a moral issue. The only thing gained by gay couples is the title of their "union", so much more is lost for everyone else.

As best as I can tell, if Proposition 8 does not pass, then the only thing it changes for Gay Couples is the title of their union. Instead of being forced to call it a civil union or domestic partnership, they can now call it a marriage. If they get the "right" to call their union a marriage, what is there stopping them from then asking for equal treatment from society when people talk about families? What is stopping them from demanding that schools, when teaching "age appropriate sex education", teach that a family doesn't matter who is involved. It can be two men, two women, or a man and a woman. Basically, what is stopping them? What about those of us who feel that it is morally wrong? What about my rights? I don't understand how this all became a debate about rights in the first place. In all honesty, this is a moral issue. Is it okay to engage in homosexual behavior? I say no. Others says it doesn't matter and that either side should be treated the same. I disagree. That is almost (emphasis on almost since homosexuality is not against the law) like saying, well you really shouldn't do drugs, but it is your choice and everyone should be treated the same regardless of whether or not they do drugs.

If Proposition 8 does not pass, what is stopping gays from demanding that churches treat them as equal to anyone else asking to be married? Sure, Supreme Court judges in their over-turning of the "voice of the people" said that Churches would not be forced to change their views, beliefs, or policies regarding gay marriage. I find that hard to believe. Why wouldn't a gay person seeking to get married who gets turned down by a Church or minister not get angry or try to sue for prejudiced behavior. Why would they not consider it a hate crime if one Church or Religion (Catholics, Mormons, etc.) stated that they would not allow such marriages to be performed by their clergy or in their buildings?

I think this whole thing really goes back to what the fundamental purpose of marriage and sexual relations. The reason people get married is to form a family. Now, I'm sure that gay couples can have families, but it is not the same. Because traditionally, marriage was a front-runner to sexual relations. You do not have sex until you are married. Society today seems to think that is a crazy notion and that it doesn't really matter as long as you are "safe". But, that disregards the fundamental reason we have sexual relationships; to pro-create. That is what sex is for. Sure, it brings pleasure to those participating (usually we hope), and you do creating a deeper bond with the person. However, the fundamental reason for having sexual relationships has been from the beginning of time to pro-create or replenish the species. Proposition 8 does not take away any of the rights that are given to gay and lesbian couples who form a domestic partnership. They already have all the same rights and privileges under the law that traditionally married couples do. The ONLY THING a NO VOTE changes is the definition of the gay/lesbian relationship and the traditional definition of marriage. Through all of time, until recently, marriage has always been between only a man and a woman. This is natural. This makes sense. I believe this is the way it was intended; if it wasn't then why can't two men or two women pro-create?

VOTE YES ON PROPOSITION 8 AND PROTECT THE DEFINITION OF MARRIAGE!! VOTE YES on PROPOSITION 8 to define marriage the way it should be and was intended to be, only between a man and a woman!! Redefining marriage will be detrimental to society. Children need the different types of nurturing that can only come from a Father and Mother.

VOTE YES ON PROPOSITION 8!!!!